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I was watching the news on TV last night as Katelyn jumped into my lap. The program discusses the coming presidential election. Earlier at dinner, we had a conversion about death which is always a nice topic to bring up at chow time… ๐Ÿ™‚

Here’s a little exchange I had with Katelyn, about dead presidents…

K:“Daddy, which presidents are dead?”
R: “You mean you want me to name some presidents that you know who are already dead?”
K: “Yeah!”
R: “Well, a lot of the old presidents are dead. Like George Washington, Lincoln…”
K: “You mean Abraham Lincoln? He’s dead?”
R: “Yes, you didn’t know that? He lived a long time ago and he’s dead just like Thomas Jefferson . Do you know him?”
K: “No I don’t.”
R: “A lot of old presidents are dead like John F. Kennedy…”
K interrupts: “Daddy, how come all presidents are boys and there are no girl presidents?”
R: “Good observation and a very good question, Katelyn. I guess no woman tried to be president in the old days. But that doesn’t mean there will never be a woman president. In fact, there’s this lady and her name is Hillary and she is trying to be the president right now. Did you know that?”
K: “No…”
R: “I’ll point her out to you the next time we see her on TV. Anybody can become a president, even you. Do you want to the president?”
K pauses then said: “Nahhh… I’ll become zoo keeper instead!”

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mangoes

Next to weather, the next best thing about the summer for me is the summer fruits. I like strolling the local farmers market and see endless display of colorful fruits. My girls just can’t get enough of strawberries, cherries, pluots and pineapple, Suzanne likes crunchy white peaches. I dig just about anything, but my favorite is probably apricots.

Several weeks ago, Mercury News’ Food & Wine ran an article about “luscious” Alphonso mangoes. These are pricey mangoes imported from India for the first time in 2 decades. The article described these supposedly kings of mangoes:

“With its fragrance of buttery vanilla shortbread cookies and flesh as sensuously smooth as the creamiest pudding…”

That sounded enticing enough for my curiosity. The mangoes are imported via flight in small quantities and only Indian shops carry them. So I took the girls and stopped by a local Indian bakery in Sunnyvale that following weekend. The proprietor was pushing me to buy the whole case. We bought 3 to try; and at $4 for each tiny one, they were pricey alright.

That night, we tried them. First, I wasn’t happy that 2 of the 3 turned out bad. They do definitely has a distinctly pungent taste and smell but it isn’t nearly as exotic as the article made them out to be. Perhaps I am less impressed because I recognized the taste right away though. I’ve had them before but just don’t remember where or when. I’m glad I got to try them but while I’m no food critic but I concluded that they are a little over-rated and a lot over-priced.

I’ll spend my $12 on champagne mangoes from Mexico next time!

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I own 2 cars all my adult life: both Toyota.

My first one was a Toyota Celica, ’82 I believe. I inherited it from my sister; she left it to me after she upgraded to a red Mazda Miata. I drove it all during my college years. It was a brown compact car– damn ugly color but hey beggar can’t be chooser right? I was thrilled I had something called my own. And I had no money at the time.

I took it with me when I moved to the Bay Area in summer of 1992 to take an engineering job with NorTel. A few weeks into the job, I woke up one morning and discovered the car was gone. I couldn’t believe some idiots actually stole a freaking old car like mine. I was staying temporarily at my uncle’s in San Jose at the time. The cops eventually found it in Bakersfield a few days later!

I used the car for a year and a half. During that time, I occasionally made trips back to southern Cal. Looking back, it was rather miraculous that the darn thing didn’t crap out in the middle of the trip on me. Oblivious at the time, but I learned later that the underlying of the Celica was rusting away. But I liked the car; it was small and perfect size for me at that time. It didn’t give me a lot of troubles despite its age & condition.

I gave the Celica to my cousin in Sacramento in ’93 after my Dad gave me a ’94 Camry. This time it’s brand new. It was a family sedan, not exactly a model I’d go for but I inherited this second car, once again. I’ve been driving this Camry for almost 14 years now. The Camry proved to be ultra reliable and pretty maintenance free. I’m very impressed with Japanese auto making. During my years of driving it, it required only 1 major service and the one period of time when it had some electrical problems (due to human errors), I had no other troubles with it. Over the last few years, I actually waited for it to die on me so I have an excuse to trade in for a new set of wheels. No such luck.

But I drove the old reliable Camry one last time this past Sunday. My last ride on it was to a park by myself (wasn’t a nostalgic ride, I just had some reading to do). I gave it to my aunt since her son is starting college this year. I am actually sad to part with it.

I’ll be driving my Dad’s van until he comes back to the states later this year. I’ve several months to do some research for my next car. It should be fun… It’ll be the first time in my life that I’d walk into the show room buying a car for myself. Well, that’s assuming I’ll decide on getting a new car.

Having driving Toyota all these years, it’d be nice to get something non-Toyota. But I’m not ruling it out completely. But then again, do I really want stick to driving the same car for another 14 years? ๐Ÿ™‚

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lotusWe visited the Conservatory of Flowers in Golden Gate Park this past Saturday. I’ve been meaning to pay it a visit when it reopened a few years ago after undergoing years of renovation. It’s basically a giant green house of rare plants and flowers. The place is actually smaller than I imagined but the collections were amazing nevertheless. The orchids and the lotuses in particular were just flowerspectacular.

Best of all, it was a fabulous photo opp. for me, as I don’t get to take many floral shots. A lot of the visitors there were photographers, some lugging very impressive equipments. I’m very happy with some of the photos I managed to take.

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Allison woke up from the afternoon nap yesterday in a foul mood. As Katelyn & I approached her, she threw a tantrum and kicked us. With patience tested by her all day, I promptly ordered her to her room. Of course she balled as she ran into her room.

Katelyn: Daddy, she’s just cranky after her nap
Daddy: Yes, but Daddy doesn’t like her acting out like that
Katelyn: But she’s always cranky from her naps. That’s normal. She’s scared now when you time her out.
Daddy after a pause, relents: Alright, let’s go get her!

As we went to get Allison from her room, Daddy smiled and felt particularly proud that big sister stood up to her old man for her lil’ sis!

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Suzanne and I been talking about taking a cruise for a while now; finally we spent this past spring break visiting Caribbean on Royal Caribbean’s Freedom of the Seas. We were first-time cruisers– so everyone was excited, especially the kids. For the parents, it was our second time visiting the Caribbean, but first time for western Caribbean.

On our second morning, we docked at the island of Cozumel. Katelyn went on a submarine ride with her cousin Malia while Suzanne & I took Allison to downtown for a bit sight-seeing and shopping. I had originally booked an excursion hiking to the Mayan ruins at Tulum, but canceled the last minute to spend time with Suzanne & Allison instead. It would have been a good trip with lots of photo ops. Oh well, next time…

In Grand Cayman, we visited Stingray City– a famous sandbar in the middle of the ocean where stingrays congregate. The excursion was over-booked and so we were first sent to a beach with beach chairs packed like sardines. I took the opportunity to test my new water-proof case for Suzanne’s camera. An hour late, we finally boarded the boat. The boat ride to the sandbar was enjoyable, the water was aqua and just beautiful. No doubt that Grand Cayman is the playground for the rich– huge spectacular mansions dotted along its shorelines as far as the eyes can see.

Many boats already anchored there by the time we arrived. The water was waist-deep at the sandbar. We were given chunks of squid to feed the stingrays. While putting on my snorkel one huge ray swam up and rubbed my legs– I was startled but that was really cool. Suzanne was also at first a bit nervous at their “friendliness.” It was real neat to see all these rays all around us and be able to touch them. The coolest thing was feeding the rays, as they swim over your hand and their mouths sucking away the squid from your hand like a vacuum. No wonder the guide asks us not to stick our thumbs our while feeding!

I tried taking pictures and videos of the rays under water but let’s just say my first stab at imitating Cousteau wasn’t a success– among the excitement and all the action, I managed a total of 1 decent underwater photo. ๐Ÿ™‚ The videos were crude but still pretty neat. All in all, it was a very cool experience. It would’ve been even better had it’d not been so crowded.

Next, we visited Dunn’s River Falls and its cascading waterfalls. It’s apparently a very popular tourist attraction in Jamaica. A local guide would take a group climbing the water falls. The climb wasn’t very treacherous but enough danger to make it exciting. It was overly crowded but Suzanne & I had fun anyway. There were lines like Disneyland.

The last port was Labadee, Haiti where we spent the entire day with the kids on the beach. The place was secluded and very pretty. Because it was private property it lacks the tourist traps and commercialism. I really enjoyed my time there.

The dining on the cruise was great. We enjoyed the service of our friendly Indian waiter named Freddy. But by the 5th day I had enough of fine dining– would’ve happily traded my steak or lobster for a bowl of pho. I guess there’s only so much of fine food a simpleton like me can take!

There were plenty of activities on the ship.The kids naturally enjoyed the pools the most. Suzanne & I tried wall climbing. I participated in a volleyball tournament– our team placed 2nd. There was a surf machine that makes artificial waves, but I never braved the crowds to use it. The whole family tried ice-skating. We were depleted most nights after a day of fun activities.

One nice thing about cruising is minimal planning: either for food or activities. It’s all inclusive. Each night, we look forward to a nice sit-down dinner and a show afterward. I even got to try some new food like parfaits. It’s not as good as Donkey made it out to be (there’s a scene in Shrek where Donkey says “parfaits gotta be the tastiest thing on the whole damn planet“). The nightly variety entertainment was top notch Vegas-quality– I enjoyed everyone I saw. I was surprised at the quality production the cruise line was putting up.

With food and entertainment factored in, cruising can be reasonable in terms of cost. Another big plus is the activities for kids, basically free childcare while the grown-ups go on their excursions. I think cruises attract those who’s looking for doing most activities, visiting as many visited places, being most entertained and eating as much fine food, within a span of time. In essence: it’s all about efficiency. You can’t really beat that if that’s what you’re looking for in a trip.

The downsides to cruising, I find? First and foremost, it’s the crowds. For me, it’s hardly relaxing when I keep running into people wherever I go. Lines everywhere. Second: minimal local interactions. You’re constantly hit with tourist traps when you leave the ships. I must admit that I’m the low key back-country type of guy when it comes to vacationing. I don’t particularly enjoy overly-commercialized places. I rather chill out in a quiet place. I find our last trip to north shore of Hawaii a tad more relaxing.

All in all though, everybody had a great time. I wished I had more camera time. I failed to find enough free time to take my camera through the paces whenever I vacation with the kids. They just keep me too busy. I didn’t get up early enough to capture the sunrise as I intended– not even once. On the other hand I got tons of family photos of the wife and kids which is just fine with me.

Here are some of the photos.

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We dressed the girls in their traditional Chinese outfits and took them to the lunar New Year parade in downtown San Jose this past weekend. It was the girls’ first time watching a parade. Despite the cold & gray morning, the girls seemed to enjoy it. The lions & dragons came up right next to the girls! Katelyn & Allison even got to pet a few of them.

There were a lot of photographers there, some of them pro’s wielding very impressive equipment around. I definitely felt inadequate. ๐Ÿ™‚ But here are some of my snapshots. Interestingly, I encountered more Nikon than Canon users…

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Katelyn had a little party at The Little Gym to celebrate her 5th birthday, this past weekend. The kids had a blast doing kiddie gymnastic activities. Katelyn definitely seemed to enjoy the extra attention. Even Allison, who’s normally a bit shy, participated in all activities whole-heartedly. Here some snapshots from the party.

I was happy celebrating Katelyn’s birthday. She’s making great strides this year- constantly surprises & impresses me with things she learns and does. She likes to sing, loves to color and teaches me the names of all sorts of dinosaurs (most of them I really didn’t even know)! She’s getting more inquisitive and can be thoughtful at times. She’s always very active and plays rough sometime. I see a bit of tomboy-ness in her. She can write words phonetically and do simple math. Not as crazy about Dora as last few years, but definitely still way into Disney princesses. Still likes pink but shuns Barbie because she knows I don’t like her getting into Barbie. Still a picky eater, but she’s at least trying new things; she even eats brocolie now. Her best friend is her cousin Malia, who she loves sleeping over with. She’s starting to help out little bit around the house- her biggest responsibilities being setting up the table at dinner time and feeding the fishes. Her face is usually the 1st thing I see when I come home from work, she’d run to be the first to open the door for me.

But the best thing I saw in Katelyn this year is the little glimpses of her trying on the role a big sister: helping, encouraging and protecting Allison at certain times. I simply cannot be any prouder when I see thatโ€ฆ

Unbelievable to me that Katelyn turned 5. At the same time, it seems forever that she’s part of our lives though. I can barely remember the bk era- before Katelyn. ๐Ÿ™‚

Happy birthday kiddoโ€ฆ

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A rarity: we started this past Saturday morning earlier than usual. It was a nice brisk winter morning, wasn’t very cold. After a hearty breakfast at Hobee’s, we headed out to the Children’s Museum in downtown San Jose. It was nice being early birds for once, there wasn’t the usual crowd to fight through. A few minutes into it however, Suzanne began feeling ill. She felt bad enough that we had to abruptly pack up & leave for home.

Later that afternoon, the weather worsened but we braved the rain back to the museum with the mom resting at home. The girls had a blast with all the exhibits, especially with the ever-popular bubble display and face painting. They were well-behaved so I didn’t have troubles without their mommy’s help. We stayed until closing time and by this time, the rain got even heavier and made me regret for parking a bit further away to save a $5 parking fee.

As we got off 280 on Stevens Creek, we came across a man holding a “Homeless, Need Help” sign. I felt bad for the guy for having to brave the cold rain. He looked particularly pathetic and he reminded me of a Cowboy Junkies’ song called “Cause Cheap Is How I Feel”:

“And when a bum asks you for a quarter, you give a dollar. If he’s out tonight, he must be truly down.”

I pulled a few bucks out of my wallet, handed to the guy and told him to take care. As I pulled away, Katelyn was puzzled as to what I was doing and asked me who the guy was and why I gave him money. I explained to her that unlike us, he probably doesn’t have a place to come home to and that he’s probably hungry. I explained that I felt bad that he’s out in the rain and the cold, that I gave him the money so he can buy food for himself.

Through the rear-view mirror, I saw Katelyn was listening intently and occasionally sat up & looked back at the guy. She remained quiet for a while and was obviously thoughtful. As I turned into our neighborhood, she said quietly:

“Daddy, I think you’re very nice.”

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I’m normally up with the kids in the morning, and so I usually get the task of getting the kids ready. When it comes to doing their hair, they usually tell me how to do their hair– be it just brushing, a simple pony tail or “funny hair” as Katelyn calls it (pig-tails). My aunt who takes care of the kids sometime braid their hair for school.

So as of late, Allison prefers her hair braided. This is a problem for me because Allison’s hair is very thin (as is everything else with her). Last but not least, braiding is always challenging for my big fat fingers. My attempts always end up looking a bit weird. ๐Ÿ™

Yesterday morning, again Allison asked her hair to be braided. Uh oh… I tried to talk her out of it. “Are you sure Allison? Wouldn’t you like funny hair?” I asked, hoping for a nod. But no luck– she insisted braiding. So I finally pleaded to her: “sorry Allison, Daddy is not good at braiding your hair. I can’t do it.”

To that, Allison replied:

“But daddy, you try your best okay?”

Ouch, “use that one back at me won’t you” I thought. Can’t say no to that! So Allison patiently waited as my fat fingers going through her hair. When I was done, sure enough, her braid looked weird as pictured above! But Allison didn’t care, she happily trotted off to show off her braided hair to her sister and her mom.

Recognizing I need help, I google’d around for instructions. Here’s illustrated instructions I you’re braiding-challenged like me.

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